Lifes Kinks

So lastnight was one of those famous 'we'll look back at this one day and laugh' nights. My DH and myself had a knock down blowout fight, that had been coming for days but, we finally gave into it lastnight. We laughed, we cried (well I did), we shouted, we cursed, we said sorry, and than we made up! After all what's the use of having a fight if your not going to makeup the proper way ;-) right? What was the fight about? What are they ever about,1. A lack of communication,2. Understanding the other person,3. Misunderstanding the other person,4. Listening but not hearing one another,5. Making up your mind beforehand,6. Not wanting to admit the other is right, 7. Not wanting to admit your wrong (whoever wants to do #7&8), 9. Thinking you are right, even when you know your wrong.
Life throws you curveballs all the time, and I guess it just depends on if your willing to catch them and deal with the problem at hand, or if your going to just duck out of the way every time. Intel you have all kinds of balls coming at you and hitting you all at once, since you refuse to deal with them as they come, and than you end up blowing up because your overwhelmed.
Be open and communicate, not just once in awhile but all the time. When the lines of communication break down than so does everything in your marriage. God is the one in control and when you are fighting for control over your spouse you are fighting over control with God too. Submit to his will, and his 'will' will be done.